16 Things People Say That They Don’t Actually Mean

 When people say these things they make not necessarily mean it:
1. “It’s fine.” Literally nothing could be less fine.
2. “We should get a drink some time and catch up!” I really do want to catch up with you, but inevitably we’ll just run into each other again six months from now and make this same promise.
3. “I’m almost there!” I left my apartment one minute ago.
4. “I’m just getting one drink and then I’ll be home.” I will loudly slam everything in the kitchen when I get home at 1 a.m. and start making nachos.
5. “Your baby is sooo cute.” All new babies look the same.
6. “How was your weekend?” How long do we have to make polite small talk before I can ask if you finally hooked up with that guy from accounting?
7. “I’m not looking for something serious.” I’m not looking for something serious with you.
8. “What’s your name?” I’m not sure why I’m asking this question because I am 100 percent not going to remember your reply. Jessica? Jamie? Oh, Betty, sorry.
9. “I’m about to get on the subway/in my car. Can I call you back?” This conversation needs to end right now.
10. “I don’t think I’m going to make it out tonight. I’m not feeling well.” I feel great sitting on my couch watching Say Yes to the Dress.
11. “Do you mind if I eat the last piece?” I already ate it.
12. “No worries!” I want to murder you.
13. “I reached out but I haven’t heard back yet.” I forgot you asked me to do that until right this minute.
14. “I hate drama.” I am usually the one starting the drama.
15. Laugh at loud “lol.” I didn’t even smile.
16. “Your cat is nice.” I’m a dog person.

7 things to never tell friends about your relationship

I’m a firm believer that you should share your life with your friends and that it’s important to be able to vent to them about the things in your everyday life.

That being said, there are SOME things you should NOT tell your friends about your relationships. This is my list of the things not to tell your friends about your relationships.

1. FIGHTS

It’s okay to tell your friends about your relationship, it’s even okay to tell them when you get into a fight. But never go into the specifics unless you’re asking for an HONEST opinion. Friends that ask you to tell them if they’re being crazy about a fight that they’re having but don’t actually want to hear your opinion, are awkward people. So lets all keep our domestics to ourselves.

2. SEX

Don’t tell your friends the specifics of your sex life. Don’t tell them about any kinks your partner has because from that point on, your friend will never be able to look them in the eye again.

3. MONEY PROBLEMS

It’s okay to talk to your friends about money problems of your own but it’s not okay to bring your significant other’s finances into that conversation. A lot of people are very sensitive about what they perceive as weakness and that’s never a line you want to cross.

4. CHEATING (IF YOU’RE WORKING IT OUT)

If someone cheats on you and you dump them, feel free to tell all of your friends (and a few strangers) how much of a scumbag they are. But, if you’re working it out, NEVER tell your friends that your significant other has cheated. You may forgive them because you love them but your friends love you, and they won’t.

5. PROBLEMS IN THE BEDROOM

Once again, once you talk about this with your friends, they will never look at your partner the same way again. Your friends don’t need to know if you need to talk your significant other in for little blue pills. That’s something you should keep between you and your partner.

6. YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PROBLEMS

Your friends are YOUR friends, and your partners problems really aren’t yours to share. Let your partner talk about their problems with whoever they choose. It’s not fair for your friends to know everything about your significant other’s life.

7. YOU SIGNIFICANT OTHER’S PAST RELATIONSHIPS

Once again, your friends are YOUR friends. They don’t need to know that four years ago the person you’re with had his heart-broken by an even woman named Tina. If that’s something they want to share with your friends, let them. But that isn’t exactly your place.

I know that we all want to believe that we live in a world like Séx and The City where we can all sit down with our girlfriends and discuss everything about everything in our lives. But, the truth is martinis and cosmos and endless conversations might be great on TV, but in real life they can get a little awkward when you see your Carrie’s Big on the street.

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Aspire to Acquire the desire you Admire.: Be Up-Lifted, Why we get discouraged

Aspire to Acquire the desire you Admire.: Be Up-Lifted, Why we get discouraged: Most Encouraging Poem Ever. If you want to be discouraged, Look back at your past If you want to be distracted  Look around and beside yo...

Be Up-Lifted, Why we get discouraged

Most Encouraging Poem Ever.

If you want to be discouraged,
Look back at your past
If you want to be distracted 
Look around and beside you.
If you want to be dismayed
Look down on yourself
But if you want to be delivered
Look up unto the Creator.

Real Life Scenario

Most often we look back at our past and fail to forgive ourselves.

This attitude holds us back and keeps us in the past.

Sometimes we also look at the people surrounding us,
and more often than not they discourage us and tell us "You can't do it"

And other times they make us feel so inferior with their achievements.
Then we begin to look down on ourselves and start to believe what others are saying about us. 

But my friend I want to tell you that this world is awaiting for the giant in you,

Its there, right there, hidden in you. Waiting for you to bring it out and show the whole world

What you are made off and capable off.  You are a champion too.